Random Rants
What He Says to You/What He Says Behind Your Back – Mr. Jekyll, Mr. Hyde
Being two faced; talking behind someone else’s back and saying something differently in front of them. Usually this behavior is associated with females. I know you have heard the arguments; “I can’t stannnnd her. She is a two faced bitch.” The main cause of fights between women usually stems from someone being accused of being a phony or two faced.
This element has surfaced in relationships between men and women who are intimate with one another.
He is your man. You’re his woman. You are proud and happy almost high that this man you wanted for so long selected YOU to be his. And to your face, he tells you every thing that is sweet and nice. He loves you. Adores you. Noone else is better. He seems to love you. He’s attentive and giving. He may even do something unique that previous men have never done for you. Your connection is deep. He has even shown you to his world and introduced you to family and friends and acknowledged you as his woman. To your face.
Wonder what he says behind your back to some folks?
You’d be quite shocked and surprised to find what YOUR man, boyfriend, even husband has mentioned to someone about you. Especially when that someone else is another woman.
He may indicate that he is very unhappy with you or that you are crazy and he is ready to leave you. You stress him out UGH, he can’t stannnnnnnd you. He doesn’t really want to be with you, he is there just because. You are a charity case he was compelled to do a favor for. You don’t cook. You refuse to have sex with him. All so this new prospect of his can feel sorry for your Man and give him what she believes he is not receiving at home.
You’ve met him. He’s in a relationship yet he claims he wants you. He’s either unhappy or just there for the kids. He claims the relationship is not what it appears to be. He’s with her, yet he wants to taste you. He claims to her he’s in love and to you he is not. The one man acts like two; Mr. Jekyll. Mr. Hyde. Which is it?
To your face, you are his boo and you treat him like the man you love and honor. Because of what he says in your face. Behind your back your MAN may not honor and adore you like you think. Of course he’s your man. He said so. He says it when he’s making love to you. He loves you. Right?….Maybe not so.
In a union that is supposed to be meaningful and sacred, where did this element come from? Today, in a relationship do we now have to question the integrity of the words of the one we love?
It seems today individuals are joining together out of convenience, desperation, or need of something they themselves are not capable of attaining. Some men and women are together simply because they cannot afford to live on their own. So many unions appear to be full of love on the surface when underneath it, one of the two in the partnership is living under false pretense. Someone has a hidden agenda.
To hide one’s true self underneath the cloak of love is one deception that is almost unforgivable. – Ms. Professional
